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Children and teenagers communicate mainly through social media platforms such as WhatsApp, Instagram, Snapchat, and TikTok. Emojis have become an essential part of online conversations with the rise of instant messaging.
While most emojis appear innocent, some carry hidden meanings that parents might not immediately understand.
These symbols can be used to discuss sensitive topics, risky behaviour, or illicit activities.
Understanding these hidden meanings is crucial for parents who want to ensure their children's safety in the digital world.
THE ROLE OF EMOJIS IN TEEN COMMUNICATION:
Emojis help young people express emotions, ideas, and intentions in a visually appealing and shorthand way.
However, they have also evolved into a type of secret language that can be difficult for adults to decipher.
Certain emojis are used to disguise conversations about drugs, alcohol, mental health struggles, or even unsafe relationships.
COMMON EMOJIS AND THEIR HIDDEN MEANINGS:
EMOJIS RELATED TO DRUGS AND ALCOHOL:
🍌 Banana / 🍉 Watermelon – Often used to refer to marijuana or cannabis.
🍁 Maple Leaf – Sometimes signifies marijuana.
🍊 Tangerine – Code for ecstasy.
🍸 Cocktail Glass / 🍻 Beer Mug – Represents alcohol consumption or partying.
💊 Pill – Indicates drug use, including prescription drug misuse.
EMOJIS INDICATING SEXUAL CONTENT:
🍆 Eggplant / 🍑 Peach – Used to symbolise male and female body parts in sexual conversations.
💦 Water Droplets – Implies sexual intent or arousal.
🔥 Fire – Can indicate someone is attractive or 'hot'.
😈 Smirking or Devil Face – Suggests flirtation, mischief, or sexual innuendo.
💋 Kiss Mark – Often used in intimate or suggestive contexts.
EMOJIS REPRESENTING VIOLENCE OR GANG ACTIVITY:
🔫 Pistol / ⚔️ Crossed Swords – Signify violence or gang-related threats.
🎮 Video Game Controller – This could indicate discussions about online gambling, hacking, or violent gaming trends.
⚡ Lightning Bolt – Sometimes used to indicate gang activity or fast-paced illegal dealings.
🏴☠️ Pirate Flag – May symbolise rebellion, crime, or risky behaviour.
EMOJIS RELATED TO MENTAL HEALTH AND SELF-HARM:
🎯 Bullseye / ✊ Raised Fist – Sometimes used to indicate self-harm or suicidal thoughts.
💀 Skull / ⚰️ Coffin – Could indicate thoughts of death, depression, or despair.
💔 Broken Heart – Symbolises emotional distress or heartbreak, often used in discussions about depression or suicide.
😔 Pensive Face / 😢 Crying Face – May indicate feelings of sadness or helplessness.
🖤 Black Heart – Can represent dark emotions, heartbreak, or suicidal ideation.
WHY PARENTS SHOULD BE AWARE:
Cyberbullying, drug abuse, and mental health issues among teenagers are on the rise.
Understanding the hidden meanings of emojis can help parents detect potential dangers early.
For instance, if a child frequently uses emojis associated with drug use or mental health struggles, it could indicate deeper issues that require attention.
Additionally, online predators often use coded language to engage with minors.
By recognising these emojis, parents can intervene before their child falls victim to exploitation.
HOW PARENTS CAN PROTECT THEIR CHILDREN:
MONITOR ONLINE ACTIVITY:
Regularly check your child's social media and messaging apps to ensure they are not engaging in risky conversations.
HAVE OPEN CONVERSATIONS:
Foster an environment where children feel comfortable discussing their online interactions with you.
USE PARENTAL CONTROLS:
Enable content filters and parental monitoring apps to limit exposure to harmful content.
STAY INFORMED:
Keep up with evolving online trends and slang to understand how communication changes over time.
EDUCATE YOUR CHILD:
Teach them about the risks of online interactions and how to use social media responsibly.
ENCOURAGE OFFLINE ACTIVITIES:
Encourage hobbies, sports, and family activities that reduce screen time and promote healthier interactions.
SET DIGITAL BOUNDARIES:
Establish rules regarding phone use, especially during nighttime or school hours, to minimise exposure to harmful content.
BE AN ACTIVELY INVOLVED PARENT WHO TAKES ACCOUNTABILITY:
Being an involved parent goes beyond monitoring online activity - it requires fostering trust,
educating children about digital dangers, and leading by example.
ESTABLISH TRUST AND COMMUNICATION:
Ensure your child feels safe discussing their online interactions with you.
Avoid punishments that might lead them to hide information from you.
EDUCATE YOURSELF:
Stay updated on the latest social media trends, slang, and emerging online risks.
BE A ROLE MODEL:
Practice healthy digital habits yourself.
Demonstrate responsible screen time use and respectful online interactions.
SET CLEAR EXPECTATIONS:
Have honest discussions about internet safety and the consequences of inappropriate online behaviour.
CREATE A FAMILY DIGITAL AGREEMENT:
Outline rules regarding screen time, app usage, and appropriate online behaviour.
REGULARLY CHECK-IN:
Have routine conversations about what your child is experiencing online instead of waiting for an issue to arise.
ENGAGE IN YOUR CHILD'S DIGITAL WORLD:
Show interest in the apps and platforms they use, and where appropriate, engage with them in a supervised manner.
SEEK PROFESSIONAL HELP IF NEEDED:
If you notice warning signs of cyberbullying, addiction, or mental health struggles, seek guidance from a professional.
Emojis may seem like harmless digital expressions, but they have taken on deeper meanings that parents must be aware of. South African children are exposed to local and global online influences, making it essential for parents to stay informed about emerging trends. Parents can better protect their children from potential dangers by understanding the hidden messages behind certain emojis, ensuring a safer digital experience.
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