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WHAT IT MEANS TO BE AN ONLINE BULLY:
Online bullying, often referred to as cyberbullying, involves the use of digital technologies, such as social media platforms, messaging apps, gaming platforms, and other online forums, to harass, threaten, or humiliate someone.
Unlike traditional bullying, which typically occurs face-to-face, cyberbullying can be persistent and pervasive,
reaching victims even when they are in the safety of their own homes.
Cyberbullies can hide behind the anonymity provided by the internet, making it easier for them to say
hurtful things they would not dare to say in person. This form of bullying can include spreading rumours,
sending threatening messages, sharing private information without consent,
or creating fake profiles to mock or impersonate someone.
It is distressing to discover that your child is being bullied online.
Parents should take the following steps to address the situation.
Stay Calm and Supportive:
Your immediate reaction is crucial.
Stay calm, listen to your child, and reassure your child that they are not alone and that you are there to help.
It is essential to create an environment where your child feels safe and comfortable sharing their experiences with you.
Do not disregard or minimise your child’s distress.
Document the Bullying:
Encourage your child to save any messages, screenshots, or other evidence of the bullying.
This documentation will be helpful if the situation needs to be reported to the school or law enforcement.
Report the Bullying:
Many social media platforms and online services have mechanisms for reporting abuse.
Help your child navigate these processes to report the bullying.
If the bullying occurs within the school community, contact school administrators and inform them of the situation.
Block the Bully:
Teach your child how to block the bully on the platform where the bullying is occurring.
Blocking prevents the bully from contacting your child and can provide immediate relief.
Monitor Online Activity:
While it is important to respect your child's privacy, monitoring their online activity can help you stay aware of potential risks.
Use parental controls and regularly check in with your child about online interactions.
Seek Professional Help:
If the bullying is severely affecting your child's mental health, consider seeking help from a counsellor or therapist.
Professional support can provide your child with coping strategies and emotional support.
THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN JOKING AND BULLYING:
Distinguishing between joking and bullying can be challenging,
but it is crucial for understanding and addressing harmful behaviours.
Here are some key differences:
Intent:
Joking is typically done in good spirits without the intention of causing harm.
Friends might playfully tease each other, knowing it is all good fun.
In contrast, bullying is intended to hurt, embarrass, or degrade the victim.
The bully's actions are meant to cause distress and are often repeated over time.
Perception:
Jokes are generally perceived as funny by all parties involved.
If someone feels hurt or uncomfortable, it may indicate that the behaviour has crossed the line into bullying.
It is important to listen to the feelings of the person on the receiving end; if they are not laughing, it might not be a joke to them.
Power Imbalance:
Bullying often involves a power imbalance where the bully has more power, whether it be social, physical, or emotional than the victim.
Joking among friends usually occurs more equally, without one person dominating or controlling the other.
Repetition:
Joking is typically a one-time or occasional interaction, whereas repeated negative actions characterise bullying.
Continuous teasing, especially when it targets specific vulnerabilities, can be a sign of bullying rather than harmless joking.
Outcome:
The outcome of joking is usually positive, strengthening bonds and friendships.
Bullying leads to adverse outcomes, such as emotional distress, anxiety, and a decline in self-esteem for the victim.
By recognising the signs of bullying and taking proactive steps, parents can help protect their children from the
harmful effects of cyberbullying and promote healthy, positive interactions in the digital world.
It is also important to clarify this behaviour to your child – so that your child does not become a bully.
If you suspect that your child is a victim of online bullying, do not hesitate to contact
Mr Mike Bolhuis for the help of his skilled Cybercrime Investigation Unit.
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